How To Get Her Back In 30 Days – Detailed Guide

Hello I am Kevin Nichols,

how to get her backWhen you get dumped, it hurts

It is completely natural to do anything and everything to make ex girlfriend to answer your calls


Your ex girlfriend isn’t answering your calls… You know how difficult it is.

The breakup feelings in your chest

Sense of rejection running through your whole body

The painful and long night staring at ceiling wondering….

WHY she left me?

WHY she is not picking my phone?

Is she dating with someone else?

There’s a little secret that I’ve learned in my life that you should know…

And it is that…

Even if you are brutally dumped by your ex girlfriend

Even you previously CHEATED with your ex girlfriend

Even if she says she hates you now

Even if she is happily dating with someone new

Then still,

It is NOT over… Yes, you can BRING your ex girlfriend in your life once again

In fact…

You can bring her crawling back to you and melting in your hands like never before by just texting few simple but powerful messages.

If you want to understand more about these text messages then watch the video below:


Important Info
The reason I liked this “Texting method” so much is because relationship expert Mike Fiore provides complete step-by-step instructions about how to use them and when to use them. Even he provides ‘100 ready-to-use’ text message. There’s ZERO work required from your side

how to get her backFirst of all, I like to congratulate you for reading this how to get her back guide. This shows that you are willing to put your efforts in winning your ex girlfriend.

I know you are suffering from lots of negative feelings at the moment. This guide already helped lots of guys in getting their ex girlfriend back if you also follow this guide and put these techniques into practice then you will surely get her back in your arms once again.

In this guide I am going to show you how to get her back in just 30 days or less.

Yes, you need to work only for 30 days if you want to get your ex girlfriend back.

Already let’s start…

Your First Step

Your first step in how to get her back will be cutting off all ways of communication with her after sending a simple letter to her (see sample below). This is very important step because you are currently not in rational mode to contact her. Anything you say or do to her will be because of desperation that can make things even worst.

At this time your ex girlfriend is having mix feelings about you and if you get needy and keep on begging her then it will make your ex girlfriend to hate you even more. Your ex girlfriend currently can’t able to decide if she wants to end her relationship forever but if you show your unattractive traits then it will make her to justify in her mind that she made right decision to dump this guy. I am sure you don’t want her to make this justification.

Even if your ex girlfriend take you back just because you beg for one more chance then it will be on her terms. There is no guarantee that she will not dump you again.

This is the why cutting your communication with her is the best way to get her back.

By cutting off your connection with her you able to achieve:

  • Higher value in your ex girlfriend’s eye
  • Time to work on yourself in developing attractive traits
  • Make her to think more about you

In order to achieve these things you need to cut off your ways to contact for approximately 20 days and the 21st day will be your contact day. So mark down the date that is exactly 20 days far from now.

Today is your first day of improvement and all these 20 days you have to work on yourself to build qualities that attract almost every woman and when you meet your ex on 21st day your ex girlfriend will see completely new and attractive version of his ex boyfriend.

How to Cut Off Your Conversation With Her?

get her backYou have to write down your ex girlfriend’s number in a piece of paper (if you remember it then don’t need to write it) and delete it from your phone. Stop receiving notification from her in your Facebook profile (but don’t delete her) and put all her gifts and letter in a box and put it somewhere in your house that is difficult to go.

It is time to craft letter. You can either create handwritten letter or email her as well. But if your breakup is severe then I want you to go for handwritten letter because there is 100% chance that your ex girlfriend will read her.

Now start crafting letter for her. In this letter make sure you:

  • Show calmness and tell her you accept her decision for breakup
  • Tell her you adopted new hobby or activity (that you always wanted to do and your ex girlfriend loves it to)
  • Show her you are writing letter in hurry and not making lots of efforts to it
  • Give compliment to her by saying she is just an amazing girl but also explain you realize she is very young and not ready for relationship (if she is older than you then drop ‘too young’ part and put just ‘not ready for relationship’
  • Avoid using clingy and needy words in this letter
  • Don’t blame her for breakup
  • Apologize her if you cheated her that make her to dump you and tell her you would not do it again
  • Tell her there is something big is happening in your life (this is important but not get in details about it)
  • Tell her you are open for help if she needs it anytime by calling you

After reading this letter your ex girlfriend will get lots of different questions about you in her mind. She will invest hours upon hours in conversation with her friends just to find out what is the big thing happening in your life, why you think she is ‘too young’ for relationship and many others.

After this letter make sure you adopt new hobby that you always wanted to do and your ex girlfriend likes it as well. This letter is your last conversation for next 20 days makes sure you stand by your words and stop yourself from contacting her. If you contact her before 20 days then your ex girlfriend may think you told her lie just to cover up your breakup pain.

Here’s the sample note of this how to get her back guide (you can definitely craft your own):


Hello <Put your girlfriend name here>,

I wrote this letter just to inform you that I fully accepted your decision to break the relationship and now I moved on. There is something big happening in my life and I will tell you soon about it.

I enjoyed every moment with you because you are very cute and amazing girl but I realize you are too young for the relationship. For now, I decided to give you some time.

Maybe at some time we can become friends when you are ready.

<Your Name>

This letter is short but it does contain all valuable information that will arouses your ex curiosity. She may not answer you to this letter but it work extremely well and make her to think more about you.

What If She Contact You After This Letter?

The common result you will get after this letter is silent treatment for your ex. Maybe her friends and family members don’t want her to talk with you. But this letter makes her curious and she will start finding reasons to meet with you.

If you get reply from her something like, “What’s the new thing that is happening in your life?” Or “Why you think I am too young for relationship?” then you don’t have to reply it, NOT even short yes/no reply. Just cut off your all communication with her

Day 1-20 – Staying In Her Life Indirectly:

Don’t Trade Off Your Things:

No contact

After sending last letter stop your all communication with her and even don’t ask about your ex girlfriend from mutual friends.

You want your gifts to remain at your ex house because this way they keep on pushing your ex girlfriend to think about those lovely moments you both spend together.

If she asks you to take away your gifts from her apartment then either ignore it or tell her “let’s do it after a week or two” Don’t worry about the monetary value of your gift – it is memories that matter most.

Stay Friend With Her Friends:

If you both having mutual friends then you can go out with them and make sure you show yourself happy and not affected with the breakup. It is necessary to remain in contact with your mutual friends but don’t talk about your breakup. If they talk about your relationship then tell them you still having positive feeling for your ex girlfriend but you don’t want to get into this topic right now.

Before contacting your ex on 21st day makes sure you complete all of these:

  • Improve Lifestyle
  • Get over your breakup
  • Adopt good lifestyle habit
  • Get new friends
  • Develop some sense of humor
  • Discover new hobbies

Take Part in Ex Back Program:

If you want to win your ex girlfriend then it is necessary for you to keep your mind busy in learning some skills or language.

However, in these 20 days you can also take part in ex back program such as Mike Fiore’s Text Your Ex Back and learn how to create small but powerful text message to reactivate the memories of love and romance that you both spend together.

Mike Fiore will show you how to craft powerful text messages and when to send them so that your ex girlfriend can’t ignore these lovely memories.

Join Text Your Ex Back By Clicking This Link

Day 21 – Contacting Your Ex:

This section is very important of this how to get her back guide.

enjoying with friendsAfter completing all above objectives mentioned above it is time to contact your ex this time. Keep in your mind, your ex girlfriend at this time is confuse about you, she wants to know more about you and she wants to test you to find if you are still needy or desperate for second chance. You have to pass this test comfortably.

She will put out a feeler to find out if you are ready to give relationship second chance. Most of the guy destroyed their chance by saying ‘YES’ directly to it which means they hand over the controlling power to their girlfriend. Then at the very next moment they find their ex girlfriend leaving conversation by making excuse something like “I have work to do, I will call you later” and then never-ending wait continues.

If you don’t want to destroy your chances then stop doing this mistake. Instead of saying ‘YES’ you have to say something like, “It is too soon to talk about this” and then carry on your conversation by asking what she is doing these days and letting her know how much happy you are.

Now you have to end your conversation. Don’t end your conversation by saying “call me anytime” because this shows that you don’t have any other work to do. The best way to end your conversation is by saying “I’ll call you when I will get chance so we can make plan for coffee or something”

After ending your call don’t call her till 25th day. If you receive her call in between then here is what to say:

Hi, I am busy with my friend and we are in middle of a DVD right now. Let’s talk it some other time. I’ll call you soon.You

This reply will show to your ex girlfriend that you are very busy and you are not desperate to get into relationship. Power is now in your hand and you are not in her spell anymore. The main objective of the first call is to let her to ‘investigate’ how you are reacting to breakup. Once you pass this test you can plan your date with her.

In the end of this how to get her back guide I would like to say you will not get your ex girlfriend in your life by just reading couple of guides instead you have to put your efforts in applying these techniques in your life.

If you feel this guide is not enough for you then you can definitely take help from Mike Fiore’s “Text Your Ex Back” program and learn how you can bring your ex girlfriend into your life once again.

Click Here To Join ‘Text Your Ex Back’ and Make Your Ex Girlfriend Crawl Back To You


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